Burning Out

My counselor believes that I am close to being burned out. I think I'm closer than she knows.
Caring for Mom is so emotionally draining that it's wearing me out physically as well. Thank God I had a break the beginning of June, even if it was just one night away. The trip to Colfax was certainly not a vacation for me and when we returned, I was so worn out I could barely function. It's not that I didn't enjoy being with family and friends (OK, not the family part so much), it was the whole thing of being with Mom and having to do every little thing for her, and her not even really knowing where we were or what we were doing.
Now that the weather is nice, going outside helps, but I can't stay outside very long because I never know what Mom is doing. And it's difficult for me to go outside in the morning because I never know when Mom is getting up.
I am now looking forward to a real vacation when I go to Spokane in a couple of weeks to attend my college reunion. I will be gone five wonderful days and I won't have to pack for anyone else and I won't have to worry if anyone else is having a good time. I know I will. It's a much needed break.
Martha is going to stay with Mom and I think she is in for a really big awakening. She's getting little bits and pieces of how bad Mom really is when Martha visits. The last time Martha was here, Mom asked her a couple of times about her children. Martha kept trying to dodge Mom with talking about her students, but Mom insisted that Martha had her own children and she wanted to know how they were doing. Martha still thinks that Mom has "visions," even though I've tried to explain to her that Mom is hallucinating, now even more as she declines. But I think that's Martha's way of dealing with Mom's symptoms.
My counselor thinks it would be a good idea for me to have an overnight break at least once a month, if not more than that. When I return from Spokane, I'll talk to Martha about it. I hope she goes along with the idea, because I really need it.
I woke up one recent morning and thought, "I really don't want to do this any more." I want to care for Mom, but I'm just getting so doggone tired, and emotionally drained.
So I ask for your prayers for strength and may my God give me strength. Amen.