Mom's Checklist

Mom is changing so fast.
She is changing physically, losing weight, not seeing well with her glasses. She seems to be getting smaller each day. And of course the Alzheimer's is making her change.
The so-called experts of Alzheimer's have broken down the disease into five stages. Mom is fast approaching the last stage.
She is wandering more, getting restless. Sometimes her feet shake and she kind of stomps them. She can barely handle drying the dishes and can't put them away most of the time. The other night, when her caregiver was here, Mom began crying because she couldn't remember where the dishes went. She can't put silverware back in the drawer. I can't figure out why because that should be one of the simplest tasks. Just put the forks where the other forks are, the knives where the other knives are, etc., right? But she can't do that, and forks are mixed with the spoons and knives are with the forks ... It's always an adventure to pull out the silverware drawer and see where things are.
As these changes occur, it's like there's a checklist going off in the back of my mind. Wandering, check. Restlessness, check. Crying, check. Not being able to communicate, check. And the checklist goes on.
As I go through the checklist, it makes me sad and mad at the same time. I can't do a damned thing about it. And I hate what this is doing to this strong, independent woman. And I know the end is coming.
Alzheimer's takes all logic away. Things that are very logical to me, such as putting a shirt over your head to get it on, are not to Mom. She tries to put underwear over her head. Even with tags on the back of her clothes, she can't figure out which is the front and which is the back. She can't figure out where the garbage goes.
So as these changes occur, the checklist keeps getting longer. I hope some day very soon, I can stop checking things off and that my real Mom will find peace and happiness.